OK Cupid questions

[danaeris]

So, I want to submit some questions to OK Cupid, but I thought I'd ask you guys to screen the questions first. Suggest other answer options, or edits to the answer options given. I especially had difficulty with Question 1.

Question 1:
Which statement best describes your feelings and thoughts on sharing things with your partner(s), and on privacy?
(1) Assuming successful therapy/healing that makes all past trauma no longer traumatic to recount, you would like to eventually be able to share all important or formative experiences and facets of your personality with your partner.
(2) Wanting to share all of yourself and be completely open is unhealthy.

Question 2:
Which statement better describes how you communicate?
(1) I strongly prefer to communicate in a subtle manner.
(2) I will sometimes communicate subtly, and sometimes directly, depending on a variety of factors.
(3) If subtle communication fails, I will almost always communicate directly and explicitly.
(4) I don't bother with subtlety. I communicate directly right away.

Question 3:
Are you codependent?
(1) What is codependence?
(2) I'm not codependent.
(3) I'm codependent depending on the relationship.
(4) I'm codependent.
(5) I'm a recovered codependent.

Question 4:
When you're in love with someone, and you're at loose ends, which do you default to wanting?
(1) Spending time with myself
(2) Spending my time with the person I'm in love with