I think too often that people read what they want to read into the written word.
They see what they want to see, even if it isn't there. I don't know what situation you are referring to, but I know my own recent experience was because I thought and assumed and then reacted.
If I had thought, I would have thought, assumed, and then kept my big trap shut. But too often, the emotional one is the more satisfying.
I know that doesn't help and my rational brain agrees with you. I just need to let my rational brain drive more often. :-)
All the facts are unknowable, there's usually something that we just can't get access to. That's academic, though, as a good deal of info is often available. However, trying to get all the facts before making a decision is counter to human nature and, proabably, evolution. Trying to get all the facts about whether something wants to eat you is usually not a good idea. Running at the first idication that it might want to eat you is usually better. On a higher level, time constraints can make getting more data impossible. As a journalist, you know that deadlines mean you sometimes need to act before having everything you would like. No, I'd say what you've got is more likely a case of people sticking their noses in where they don't belong and spreading gossip and conjecture. That's not nearly as excusable as being ignorant. It's malicious.
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Date: 2008-03-05 11:14 pm (UTC)Yeah, that's what I thought would happen.
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Date: 2008-03-05 11:26 pm (UTC)They see what they want to see, even if it isn't there. I don't know what situation you are referring to, but I know my own recent experience was because I thought and assumed and then reacted.
If I had thought, I would have thought, assumed, and then kept my big trap shut. But too often, the emotional one is the more satisfying.
I know that doesn't help and my rational brain agrees with you. I just need to let my rational brain drive more often. :-)
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Date: 2008-03-06 12:53 am (UTC)*ahem* was that my outside voice?
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