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Jun. 22nd, 2004 08:11 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
danaerisMy grandfather died. There was about 30 minutes between the phone call telling me he was in the hospital and that my parents were driving to NJ to see him, and the phone call saying he'd died.
I didn't think I'd care but I apparently really really do.
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deedeebythebay and coyote3502's place. They are taking care of me. All I ask is that people be nice to me for a little while.
I may be unreliable. I may also have to fly to NJ/NYC unexpectedly.
Please feel free to thwap me if I appear to be getting into any negative thought spirals.
That is all.
I didn't think I'd care but I apparently really really do.
I'm at
deedeebythebay and coyote3502's place. They are taking care of me. All I ask is that people be nice to me for a little while.I may be unreliable. I may also have to fly to NJ/NYC unexpectedly.
Please feel free to thwap me if I appear to be getting into any negative thought spirals.
That is all.
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Date: 2004-06-22 10:35 pm (UTC)*hugs*
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Date: 2004-06-22 11:46 pm (UTC)Z
P.S.: You can never know in advance how you're going to feel, I don't think.
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Date: 2004-06-23 12:41 am (UTC)*hug*
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Date: 2004-06-23 01:45 am (UTC)hang in there
Date: 2004-06-23 03:03 am (UTC)Thank you so much for reaching out to me last night when I was in really difficult space. I couldn't talk very much but I did really, really appreciate it very much.
I was really sorry to hear of your loss tonight when Darla told me on the phone. I don't know if you were close or not, but it is always difficult to deal with a family member's death, particularly when it was sudden.
You have my full support, condolences and whatever else you might need.
Take care of you and please let me know if there is anything at all I can do. I'm a good listener and sometimes it's even easier to talk to someone you don't know. ;)
xo
Gira
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Date: 2004-06-23 07:20 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-06-23 09:24 am (UTC)If there's anything at all I can do to help, please let me know.
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